Poems like Frost’s “Home Burial” can bring home the reality of a child’s death.
Tag Archives: death and dying
Before Vaccines: Home Burials
Pullman and Dante on the Afterlife
Pullman, drawing on Dante, provides one of the most sustaining accounts of the afterlife that I know.
A Memorial Service for Old Classmates
In “Choir Invisible,” George Eliot aspires to have an uplifting impact on others.
Reading “Jabberwocky” to a Dying Child
Reasons why a mother might read “Jabberwocky” to a dying child.
Crucial Support in the Face of Death
In “Women of Brewster Place” a character charges into a scene of despair and refuses to let death triumph.
Tolstoy’s Kitty and a Dying Patient
My favorite episode in “Anna Karenina” is Kitty showing Levin she can handle a dying patient better than he can.
A Bombed Cathedral, My Lost Child
A bombed cathedral and a George Herbert hymn come to mind as I think of my eldest son, who died 23 years ago today.
On Proust and Living Life to the Fullest
As I read Proust’s “Swann’s Way,” I imagined what it must have meant to a friend, who read it when he was dying.
Reading Proust before Dying
A dying friend decided to read, in his last months, Proust’s “In Search of Lost Time.” As I read it, I’m beginning to understand why.

