Tag Archives: death and dying

O’Connor and Swift on the Death of Others

Friday While losing my mother at 96 is definitely not like Julian losing his mother in Flannery O’Connor’s “All That Rises Must Converge,” I can relate somewhat to his feelings of being adrift once she is gone. In his case, he is entirely dependent upon her, and embarrassed by her, and resentful of his inability […]

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Why Cry for a Soul Set Free?

Christina Rossetti’s “Let Me Go” guides those mourning a loved one and consoles those who are dying as well.

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Good Night, Sweet Lady

Tomorrow I will recite internally recite a passage from “Hamlet” when I pour my mother’s ashes into the ground.

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Learning about Death through Lit

In “Sons and Lovers,” there are bedside scenes that very much resemble our last days with my mother

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Death Exposes Our Conflicted Humanity

When we lose someone we love, we may have feelings that don’t appear laudable. Malraux’s “Man’s Fate” helps us understand them.

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Mixed Feelings about a Death

“Metamorphosis” captures conflicted feelings about a death in the family.

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Twilight, Evening Bell, After That the Dark

Tennyson’s “Crossing the Bar” captures my emotions following my mother’s passing.

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The Final Carriage Ride

As my mother lies dying, Dickinson’s “Because I could not stop for death” speaks to me.

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In the Face of Death, the Small Things

If anticipation of a death in the near future, I turn to Roy’s “God of Small Things” for guidance.

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