Friday Yesterday Julia and I buried the ashes of writer Rachel Kranz, a dear friend who died a year ago. Her remains were divided between three who were close to her, and I chose to bury those allotted to me on the shore of Lake Eva, which sits on the edge of a bluff in […]
Tag Archives: death and dying
A Final Resting Place on the Shore
Mourning the Loss of a Son
Longfellow turned to the story of Absolom to console a friend who had lost a son. “Chamber over the Gate” captures the grief in a supportive way.
Coping with Aging through Poetry
Wordsworth has written some of the world’s great poems for coping with aging.
A River Poem in Memory of My Son
Poetry cannot bring back a son one has lost but it can capture his beauty, as this Jeanne Vote lyric does.
Remembering Rachel: Joyous, Pulsing
In a memorial service for my friend Rachel Kranz, I will talk about what her novels reveal about her.
Dead or Alive? Bureaucracy Decides
A Romanian man, presumed dead and unable to convince the authorities otherwise, recalls Doc Daneeka in “Catch 22.”
Grieving for a Loved One
Someone I love very dearly has just been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. I turn to “Sonny’s Blues” and “King Lear” to find adequate words.
Le Guin: To Refuse Death Is To Refuse Life
When Ursula K. Le Guin died yesterday, I thought of the “Farthest Shore,” the young adult novel where she grapples with humans’ fear of death.
Trump, 4 Dead Soldiers, & Col. Cathcart
Trump handled the death of the four Green Berets who died in Niger like Col. Cathcart in “Catch-22” would have. A better model would be Ned Stark in “Game of Thrones.”

