Adrian Mitchell claps back against Philip Larkin’s “They fuck you up, your mum and dad.” While he lacks Larkin’s bite, he captures my own upbringing much better.
Tag Archives: Philip Larkin
What Your Mum and Dad Do to You
Some Good News, Thanks to the Sun
Bill McKibben reports good news about the world’s conversion to solar so here are poems praising the sun from Larkin and Milton.
What Are Days For? Larkin’s Non Answer
In “Days,”Larkin urges us to make the most of each day.
Ted Lasso, Not Larkin, for Child Advice
Larkin’s famous poem “They fuck you up, your mum and dad” is wrong in a number of interesting ways.
Empire of Light, Filled with Poetry
The film “Empire of Light” is magical in part because of all the poetry recited.
Larkin’s Attack on Nostalgia
Larkin’s “I Remember” is an attack on Coventry for not having given him an idealized childhood.
My Problematic Relationship with Charles II
A melange of thoughts, including my supposed link with Charles II and authors connected with Coventry.
Notre Dame’s Meaning for Non-Believers
Wednesday Non-believers as well as believers may feel the urge to send up a prayer of thanks that Notre Dame’s basic structure appears to have survived the fire. The world-wide concern over the catastrophe indicates that the cathedral was not only meaningful to Christians. A friend alerted me to a Fleda Brown poem that helps […]

